An Open Letter From A Girl Who Felt Worthless

There's a thick air between me and the walls as I stare blankly at nothing wishing I could take the words back - what are we?   It's strange to be at something with a guy not knowing what you really are in the first place. Over the years, I have questioned my worth through …

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Where Is God When It Hurts?

It was exactly four in the morning with heavy breathing in swollen eyes, rolls of tissue on the bed, and a clouded mind full of confused questions leaving my body paralyzed under this blue blanket asking God – where are you? It took me seemingly a forever to find out where He actually was. I …

Strong Woman, You Are Free To Feel Weak

 I have been called by my friends as being a strong and independent woman, or simply a strong woman; thus to say, I can handle myself; strong in convictions, emotionally “stable”, debatable, and trying to feel okay when actually I’m not. Yet even on those matters, I find myself feeling down, the loser of the …

What it means when you validate you’re sorry

Our parents taught us to be apologetic to authorities or to people when we have committed a mistake that either offended or hurt them. It’s easy to apologize when we’re the offenders but how about when we’re not? Often times, we forget that saying sorry doesn’t necessarily give a meaning that the other person is …

When We Finally Realize That Love Is All About Them

We heard so many times that love is when we put others first than ourselves. Often times, you’d hear this from parents who would always want the best for their children. But as we age, we find loving ourselves first rather than others; hence, we cannot give what we don’t have. While it is true …

Confession: I said I am back but nothing really changed.

Oh passionate woman, where are you? I questioned the person on the mirror I was looking at. Many of my days started to crumble right down my face and things weren’t falling into place. Passion is dead, joy is gone, peace is destroyed, love is taken away – fear and doubt have ruled. Things weren’t …